Most people work very hard towards building a long-term relationship and it can be very fulfilling when you finally settle down with that special someone. Unfortunately, after a while, it can seem like things can get a little… stale. It could be because you get very comfortable with one another. Or, you have so many demands and commitments that it can be difficult to focus on each other. Well, whatever it is, the excuses stop now. Below, you will find all of the different ways that you can add a little spice to your relationship:
Make an Effort
One of the reasons that you are stuck in a rut or routine is because you follow the same old pattern. After a while, however, you may find that this doesn’t really do it for you anymore – or your partner for that matter. So, why not try to make an effort to with something a little different. For instance, instead of trying to get hot and heavy in your pyjamas, why not go shopping for some sexy new lingerie. You can even take it one step further and try role-playing complete with outfits. This gives you a whole new bag of tricks to choose from and will really help to spice things up.
Ditch Your Clothes for a Regular Activity
If you don’t want to dress up, you are in luck! A great way to reignite the spark is to try a regular activity but with a no-clothing rule. This is a great way to instantly make any mundane task incredibly sexy. So go ahead and cook (carefully) while naked or go skinny dipping either in your pool or somewhere else private. The simple act of removing your clothes can be very freeing and release your inhibitions. In turn, it is easy to find the most random task a lot more sensual.
Try Out Some Toys
Sometimes, it isn’t about necessarily trying out a new position but rather, introducing a new toy. Whenever you feel a lag in your intimacy, it can be helpful to go shopping for sex toys together. Just by doing this, you may learn a lot more about your partner than you realise. For instance, you may be surprised to discover just what turns them on. Or, you may figure out what they are actually dying to try in the bedroom. Either way, toys can be a great way to turn up the heat without stepping too far outside of your comfort zone.
Escape from Your Daily Lives
If you are feeling the pressure from your daily lives, it can be affecting your intimacy. After all, it’s difficult to get into the mood when you have a to-do list on your mind. This is why it can be helpful to go away from the weekend or just check yourself into a hotel, even if it is just for one night. In case this sounds a bit too pricey, try creating a love nest in another part of the house so that you can at least recreate this experience.
Just because you have been together for a while doesn’t mean that you have to lose the sizzle in the relationship. All of these ideas will help you to bring it back once and for all.